Had a conversation with a pretty close male friend and we were talking about WHY we feel we're single,what we want in a person,and things like that and he said something that kind of threw me. He told me that I was a lot of what he wanted in a woman and that he found himself comparing women that considered dating to ME(personality wise) and he also said that the main reason he had never pressed me was because he valued our friendship too much and didn't want to think of us potentially breaking up and breaking OFF our friendship. He said everything all casual like like it was no big deal....the way of a man, I guess. I was very flattered and it just solidified the fact that you NEVER really know who's "watching you" and you never REALLY know how much of an impact you can make on someone's life without realizing they even care enough to notice. This reminded me of the movie "Just Wright" a little bit, because of the way Queen Latifah's character in the movie was "sticking to the script" so to speak with her "relationship" with Common's character(she never tried to press, kept things kosher), the same way I have with this friend and unbeknownst to me AND Queen Latifah's character, someone was taking notice. Someone who I didn't think cared enough(in that way) to care enough to notice at all.I think it ALL comes down to personality and a person's heart. I like to make people laugh...I like to laugh. I'm the first to laugh at myself or call MYSELF out. What you see is what you get with me, I don't have many angles,I lay my cards out on the table, and I have such a "take it or leave it" attitude, it's ridiculous...lol I'm full of flaws,but I'm stitched together with good intentions. I don't claim to be "different", I just don't try to be the same. I'm ME,I never switch up...I stay true by any means necessary and I think people take notice. I don't "try"...trying can get tiring after a long time of doing it and I can be a lazy bum sometimes...lol I don't really know what the main point in this post is, so I will just make one up. BE YOU, by any means.....BE YOU. You NEVER know who's watching/taking notice. A genuine person is the most beautiful of them all.If you are genuinely a BITCH, BE that 7 days a week.No matter who/what you are,OWN that shit.....that's what makes you,YOU and sets you apart from the rest of them...don't try to blend in, if you're on some OTHER shit, STAY on it.At the end of the day, you are who you are, regardless of what you let other people see...why NOT let them see it.Personality is attractive, having a confident/STRONG personality is even sexier. Be you, you sexy bitch!! LOL

Sincerely Yours

-J Bellz